13 Years Later: The Breakup That Built Me

The past month has marked a significant positive shift for the author, who reflects on a tumultuous journey spanning 13 years since a painful breakup. Through personal struggles, including losing touch with loved ones and financial instability, the author recounts the challenges faced during and after the separation. Initially feeling broken but ultimately not destroyed, the author learned to navigate single parenthood and challenges while prioritizing mental health through therapy. By embracing small, sustainable changes, the author has rebuilt their life and continues to evolve. The experience has fostered a newfound appreciation for self-worth and meaningful relationships, ultimately leading to personal growth and happiness.

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A Different Holiday Season

The holidays can be challenging for many people. I think it’s because they are such a prominent benchmark for so many things (love, friendships, family, etc.) compared to last year. I haven’t written in a LONG while, but as I was at home, listening to holiday music, preparing for my family to visit on Christmas Day, and wrapping MY OWN Christmas presents, I had some time to reflect and gather my thoughts about the holidays, and I thought I’d share them with you.

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Change

Change is something that is almost inevitable. Death and Taxes . . . and change. Personally, I fight change every day. I like consistency, but no matter how hard I try, change occurs daily.

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Mistakes. It’s Not Too Late.

The author reflects on mistakes made across his life, emphasizing the unpredictability of life and the importance of learning from mistakes for growth. He provides intimate examples including remaining single for his daughter and suppressing past pain. He advises readers to seize the moment, express love openly, and be willing to let go when needed, as part of his personal growth.

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Am I Enough?

Hello all! It’s been about 4 months since I last posted. It’s not that I haven’t had anything to write about, it’s just that I

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In The End

When I finish this post, it will be my 37th entry in this blog (Check out my Favorite https://kailynsdad.com/crowded-room/) To be honest, when I started

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My Time

There have been many times in my life when I asked myself the question, “When will it be my time?” Most of the time, the

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Chapters In Books On My Bookshelf

I’ve always looked at my life as a series of books sitting on a bookshelf. Mind you, my book shelf is getting dustier and dustier the older I get, but I’ve always thought of my words, actions, and decisions as being collected in multiple books, sitting on a shelf for only me to see.

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When Does The Pain Go Away?

Emotional pain rivals physical pain every day. We’ve all been through a breakup and the pain that ensues. But when does it go away? I wanted to write about this for some time, but couldn’t find the “right” words for a topic like this. It’s easy to write about now that I’m on the “other side”.
If you’re going through something right now, I wanted you to know it gets better. I promise. I hope my thoughts help anyone dealing with this.

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